...and I thought I loved you then: Eagle Board of Review

At the end of September, Anders went for his Eagle Board of Review. Those reviewing his application sat and reviewed his paper work, pictures and info on his Eagle project and his recommendation letters. Anders was waiting in a room with other boys. It was a bit nerve wracking! Those making the decisions did not hesitate to make them a little more nervous. One man upon leaving the room dropped a small piece of rope. He picked it up and turned toward the boy he would be meeting with and said, "I hope you remember your knots." All the boys in the room turned white and looked at their parents thinking, "are you kidding me?" It turned out to be a wonderful night. Anders was in his room the longest of all the boys there. This made Bret and I a little anxious. The committee deliberated and then we were all called in for the decision. It was unanimous. It was obvious they were impressed by Anders. They said his project was outstanding and his recommendation letters were as well. I'm so impressed with my son as well. What a proud mother I am. I'm grateful for all the things he learned throughout this process. Bret was told by a mother recently, "we all know it is the mother who is the driving force behind a scout getting his Eagle." I thought how sad that was. Anders absolutely was the FORCE behind his Eagle project. Bret often asked Anders, especially on Sundays, "how's your project going" or "shouldn't you be working on your project" or even, "don't forget you can't get your learner's permit until you finish". The changes in Anders from the beginning of his project to the end were immense. From his organizational skills, to his ability to communicate with adults, to his desire to make high quality puzzles. We've seen a huge improvement in his study skills, responsibility and self motivation in High School this year. Anders admits he feels it is because of what he learned throughout his project. Too bad many mothers have the same attitude as this woman and don't think their sons can get their Eagle without their "help". We are so proud of Anders. Great job!!